Published March 10, 2026
Immigration, Identity, and Belonging: Therapy for the In-Between
By Rez Pazooki
Living between cultures is its own experience — full of resilience and possibility, and also grief, pressure, and a quiet question that follows many immigrants and first-generation folks: where do I actually belong?
The weight you might not name
Immigration and acculturation carry stressors that rarely get spoken aloud: the loss of home and language, the pressure to succeed for the whole family, navigating systems that weren’t built for you, and code-switching so constant it becomes invisible. It’s a lot to hold, and much of it gets normalized as “just how it is.”
Belonging in the in-between
Many people feel not-quite-enough of anywhere — too assimilated for one world, too foreign for another. That in-between isn’t a failure; it’s a real place, and it deserves care. Therapy can help you stop treating your dual identity as a problem to resolve and start experiencing it as something whole.
What culturally-responsive therapy offers
A therapist who understands cultural context won’t make you translate your whole world before you can get help. Together you can honor your roots, process grief and intergenerational patterns, and build an identity that’s genuinely yours.
I work with LGBTQIA+ folks, BIPOC clients, and people navigating immigration and belonging, by telehealth across New York.